Tuesday, November 18, 2008

SHOULD I?? OR SHOUDNT I?? THAT IS THE QUESTION??











WELL HELLO AGAIN EVERYONE!! YES I CONFESS!! I HAVE BECOME A BLOGAHOLIC!! BUT I BLAME GORGEOUS "MEL" FROM "MELSROSEPLACE" BLOG...SHE INSPIRES ME WITH HER ENDLESS BLOGS...SO I DONT FEEL TOO BAD WRITING ANOTHER ONE..

HEY i LOVE READING EVERYONE ELSES BLOGS...LYNS...SARAHS...KATHRYN...GAIL..MANDII. SHANNON ETC.SOO WHY SHOULD I FEEL GUILTY WRITING ANOTHER ONE SO SOON??!!
WELL I KIND OF DO...BUT I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK....I KNOW WHAT YOU ALL WILL SAY..AND YES I KNOW..BUT I KIND OF JUST NEED SOME RE ENFORCEMENT..I AM ALWAYS A DITHERER RE THIS DILEMMA...I KNOW WHAT I WANT TO DO...AND I SHALL PROBABLY DO IT..BUT I STILL FEEL GUILTY!!

SO THIS IS THE PROBLEM...(AND I MUST SAY I NOW FEEL GUILTY SAYING THIS IS MY DILEMMA WHEN THERE ARE SOO MANY REAL DILEMMAS OUT THERE IN THIS WORLD..!!)..
COME ON ANDREA...!! GET TO THE POINT!!

AS YOU ALL KNOW MY ELDEST SON IS AT UNI IN JAPAN..AND HE WANTS ME TO COME AND VISIT HIM...HE HAS FOUND SOME FREQUENT FLYER POINTS (OF MINE)...WHICH I CAN ACCESS AND GET A "GOOD" FLIGHT OVER...AND BACK...FOR A WEEK...FROM END OF DECEMBER...FOR ABOUT A WEEKS STAY...

I WANT TO GO...BUT AS ALWAYS...I AM WORRIED ABOUT LEAVING CHRISTIAN (WHO IS 19YO) INDEPENDANT...SOOTY OF COURSE..JUST HATE BEING AWAY NEW YEARS EVE IN CASE SOMETHING HAPPENED?? MUM & DAD TAKE SOOTY...CHRISTIAN IS FINE...HUBBY WILL BE WHEREVER?? WHY DO I HAVE THIS DILEMMA??
IT ANNOYS THE YOU KNOW WHAT OUT OF ME...IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO DECIDE TO VISIT BYRON IN ENGLAND WHEN HE WAS ON HIS GAP YEAR...AND I MUST SAY I WAS AWAY FOR 3 WEEKS (GOT SICK..SO DELAYED MY FLIGHT BACK)...BUT IT IS LIKE I NEED APPROVAL TO DECIDE WHAT I NEED TO DO...I FEEL KIND OF GUILTY DECIDING FOR MYSELF..

AM I A BIT WEIRD?! LEAVING EVERYONE...INCLUDING THE DOG..MAKES ME FEEL GUILTY??
EVERYONES OPINION/COMMENT WOULD BE MOST WELCOME..

BUT TO MAKE THIS POST A BIT LESS PERSONAL .... I BOUGHT SOME YUMMY FRENCH CHIC TYPE FRAMES TODAY...AND A CUTE BASKET...
INCLUDED A PHOTO OF MY HALLWAY/ENTRANCE...LIGHT FITTING...
I JUST LOVE THE WIREY/FRENCHY CHIC TYPE OF GOODIES ONE CAN NOW BUY FOR DECORATING..

XX ANDREA

10 comments:

Kerryanne English said...

Okay sweets, while you are trying to decide what to do (and I think you should go)....here's something else for you to think about....

Woo Hoo...you won a prize in my 100th post giveaway.

Pop on over to the Shabby Art Boutique and email me your addy so I can forward your Christmas faux truffles.
Hugs,
Kerryanne

A Bite of Country Cupcakes said...

Your goodies are gorgeous!
And we are here for a good time not a long time!
As Mums we are always the giver and provider and need "me" time and when we get it we suffer Guilt!
But really life is short and we need to give to ourselves as much as "of" ourself.
I adore your iron/wired items...

A Bite of Country Cupcakes said...

P.s Congrats on your prize...
Anything of Kerryannes is gunna be good!

A Bite of Country Cupcakes said...

HHHHeeeee,Heeeee
I won a prize too,Just popped there to see what the goodies were you got!
I don't enter many giveaways but the few I have I have been a bit lucky:)
But Oh boy I :"wanted" Kerryannes one alot!!
Congrats to us...Andrea

MelsRosePlace said...

Lol Lol whats this about Mel and her non stop blogging! He he he i am going to punish you now and not do one till Friday ! Well i probably wont be able to last that long knowing me!! Anyway, i say in regards to your dilemma i think you should go because even you will worry and fuss (&probably get cold feet at the last minute if anything like me)but the minute you are on the plane all that will be behind you and you would have a wonderful trip with your son and a great experience. They will all survive at home without you. See even my replies are too long!! Love your piccies too by the way, Mel xxx

My Pink & Cream Cottage said...

Andrea, Andrea, Andrea!! What am I going to do with you huh! Its just like Kylie says, we spend most of our lives giving, well girl its time you starting getting some back. I know how much you miss your son, what could be better Sweet than have New Year in Japan, oh hold on, Nedw Year In Paris, ok ok!! Just do it Sweet, everything & everyone will survive while you are away & it will all be there when you get back!
Congrats on your win, lucky lady, your pretties look lovely as always, & one more thing, I LOVE READING YOUR BLOG, SO DONT YOU DEAR STOP OK!!!!

Lyn XOXOX

our shabby cottage said...

OMG Andrea - GO! Opportunities like this don't come along very often and you should make the most of it....and think of all the Cath Kidston you will be able to buy.....Everyone will survive without you....That's all I am going to say on the matter.....

Sarah said...

Go Go Go, I say pack your bags & take the next available flight!
Everything else will fall into place.
Your 'pretties' are just devine, you have a great eye for detail.
Sarah xxx

Queen of the Armchair aka dzintrastitcheries said...

Now Andrea...I think all Mother's have guilt to some extent at leaving kids, and sometimes it just doesn't matter how old the kid...but I think what a great opportunity for you to visit in Japan...I know it would be very hard for me to do that as we raise a daughter with a disability...so YOU GO GIRL...but if you do decide to stay that's okay then too...go with your heart...Dzintra XX

Cottage Rose said...

Just do it! You will regret it if you don`t. Japan is a fantastic place to visit and you have a readymade tour guide to make getting about easier.

Your light fitting is gorgeous!

I over blogged last week, all blogged out this week LOL

Rose